Are You A Pillar Or A Prop?

Embracing the Noble Task: A Call to Leadership and Purpose

 

Titles, status, and personal gain are huge drivers of worldly culture. Unfortunately those same things have crept into the church. However, there’s a greater calling that beckons us – a noble task. This isn’t about chasing positions or power, but about embracing a purpose that transcends our individual desires and impacts the lives of others. It’s a call to leadership that’s rooted in service, character, and unwavering commitment.

 

The apostle Paul, in his letter to Timothy, outlines the qualities of those who aspire to be overseers in the church. But these principles extend far beyond church leadership – they speak to the heart of what it means to live a life of purpose and influence. Let’s explore these timeless truths and how they can shape our lives today.

 

Above Reproach: Living Beyond Accusation

 

The first requirement Paul mentions is to be “above reproach.” In a world quick to point fingers and cast blame, this quality stands out. It doesn’t mean perfection, but rather a life lived with such integrity that even those looking to find fault would struggle to do so. It’s about consistency between our public persona and private life, a character that withstands scrutiny.

 

Self-Control: Mastering Ourselves Before Leading Others

 

Leadership begins with self-leadership. Paul emphasizes the importance of being “temperate” and “self-controlled.” This goes beyond just controlling our appetites; it’s about mastering our emotions, our reactions, and our impulses. A leader who lacks self-control is like a ship without a rudder – directionless and potentially dangerous.

 

Respectable and Hospitable: The Power of a Welcoming Spirit

 

In our increasingly isolated world, the qualities of being “respectable” and “hospitable” shine brightly. These traits speak to a person’s ability to command respect through their actions and to create an environment where others feel valued and welcomed. It’s about opening not just our homes, but our hearts to those around us.

 

Able to Teach: Sharing Wisdom and Knowledge

 

The ability to teach goes beyond just imparting information. It’s about communicating in a way that inspires, challenges, and transforms. This quality reminds us of the responsibility we have to continually grow in our understanding and to share that knowledge with others in meaningful ways.

 

Not Given to Drunkenness: Clarity of Mind and Purpose

 

While this specifically mentions alcohol, the principle applies more broadly to anything that clouds our judgment or alters our state of mind. As leaders and influencers, we need clarity of thought and purpose. This requires discipline and sometimes sacrifice, putting aside things that might hinder our effectiveness or blur our vision.

 

Gentle, Not Violent: The Strength in Gentleness

 

In a culture that often equates strength with aggression, Paul’s call for gentleness is revolutionary. True strength is found not in dominating others, but in having the power to be gentle. It’s about responding to challenges with grace rather than force, seeking peace rather than conflict.

 

Not a Lover of Money: Freedom from Material Bondage

 

The love of money can be a powerful snare, distorting our priorities and clouding our judgment. Paul’s warning reminds us to keep material wealth in perspective, using it as a tool for good rather than making it the goal of our pursuits.

 

Managing Family Well: Leadership Begins at Home

 

Our closest relationships often reveal our true character. How we lead and manage our families speaks volumes about our ability to lead in other areas of life. It’s about creating an environment of love, respect, and growth within our own homes before we seek to influence others.

 

Not a Recent Convert: The Value of Experience and Maturity

 

This principle highlights the importance of spiritual maturity and experience. Leadership isn’t just about enthusiasm or talent; it’s about having weathered storms, faced challenges, and grown through them. It’s a reminder that true wisdom often comes through time and testing.

 

Good Reputation with Outsiders: Living a Consistent Life

 

Our influence extends beyond our immediate circle. How we’re perceived by those outside our community matters. This calls for a life of integrity that’s consistent both inside and outside the walls of our homes and places of worship.

 

The Challenge of Delay and the Danger of Derailment

 

One of the most poignant lessons we can draw from this teaching is the challenge of delay in our spiritual journeys and callings. Often, we set out with great enthusiasm, expecting quick results and immediate fulfillment of our perceived destiny. But the reality is that growth, maturity, and true preparation for leadership often involve periods of waiting and seeming inactivity.

 

When I was 18, I felt called to ministry and went to ministry school expecting to quickly be sent to do something for God. Instead, I found myself in years of training, followed by what seemed like an endless wait before any ministry doors opened. It was nearly 3 years after graduating from ministry school before I was hired at a church. During this time, it would have been easy to become discouraged, to question the call, or to give up entirely.

 

My experience highlights a critical truth: delay is not denial. Often, what we perceive as idle time is actually a period of refining, where God is “making us into gold,” preparing us for the tasks ahead. The danger lies in allowing these delays to derail us from our purpose.

 

In these times of waiting, we’re challenged to remain faithful, to continue growing, and to trust in the timing of our calling. It’s a test of character, resilience, and faith. Will we stay the course, even when the path seems unclear or the progress slow?

 

Becoming Pillars: From Props to Load-Bearing Walls

 

The ultimate call in this message is to become pillars in our communities and places of worship. Not just attendees or passive observers, but active, engaged, and supportive members who help bear the weight of the mission. This transformation from “props” to “pillars” requires commitment, consistency, and a willingness to take ownership of our role in the larger vision.

 

It means showing up not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually. It means being ready to serve, to give, and to stand firm in our faith. As pillars, we become part of the foundation upon which others can build and grow.

 

The noble task of leadership and purpose is not for the faint of heart. It requires character, commitment, and a willingness to be shaped by both triumphs and trials. But for those who embrace this calling, the impact can be profound – not just in their own lives, but in the lives of countless others they influence along the way.

 

As we reflect on these principles, let’s ask ourselves: Are we ready to become pillars? Are we willing to pursue the noble task, even through delays and challenges? The journey may be long, but the calling is clear. Let’s step forward in faith, ready to be transformed and to transform the world around us.



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Here’s a 5-day Bible reading plan and devotional guide for your week:

 

Day 1: Pursuing a Noble Task

Reading: 1 Timothy 3:1-7

 

Devotional: Paul’s words to Timothy remind us that leadership in God’s kingdom is a noble pursuit, but one that comes with great responsibility. As you read this passage, reflect on how God might be calling you to step into leadership – not for personal gain or recognition, but to serve others and build up the body of Christ. Consider the qualities Paul lists for overseers. How can you cultivate these characteristics in your own life, regardless of your current position? Remember, God often uses seasons of preparation and waiting to shape us for future roles. Ask the Lord to reveal areas where you need growth and to give you patience in the process of becoming the leader He’s calling you to be.

 

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Day 2: Building a Solid Foundation

Reading: Ephesians 2:19-22

 

Devotional: The church is described as God’s household, with Christ as the cornerstone. Each believer is called to be a “living stone” in this spiritual building. As you meditate on this passage, consider your role in the church. Are you actively contributing to the strength and stability of the body, or are you merely a spectator? Reflect on how you can become more of a “pillar” in your local congregation. This might involve consistently showing up, actively participating in worship, or using your gifts to serve others. Ask God to help you see yourself as He sees you – a vital part of His living temple – and to give you the courage to fully embrace your place in His household.

 

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Day 3: Overcoming Delays and Setbacks

Reading: James 1:2-4

 

Devotional: Delays and setbacks are a normal part of our spiritual journey, but they can be discouraging. James encourages us to view trials as opportunities for growth. Think about a time when you felt God was delaying His promises in your life. How did you respond? Did you grow impatient or lose faith? Or did you allow the delay to strengthen your character? Today, ask God to give you His perspective on the delays in your life. Trust that He is using these times to refine you and prepare you for greater things. Commit to remaining faithful and continuing to pursue His calling on your life, even when progress seems slow.

 

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Day 4: Living Above Reproach

Reading: Titus 2:7-8

 

Devotional: Paul’s instructions to Titus echo his words to Timothy about living a life above reproach. This call to integrity isn’t just for leaders – it’s for all believers. As you read this passage, consider your own life. Are there areas where your actions might bring reproach on the name of Christ? Reflect on your conduct at work, in your family, and in your community. Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal any blind spots and give you the strength to live in a way that honors God. Remember, our lives are often the only Bible some people will ever read. Pray for grace to be a living testimony of God’s transforming power.

 

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Day 5: Becoming Hospitable and Welcoming

Reading: Romans 12:9-13


Devotional: Hospitality is a key characteristic of godly leadership and mature faith. As you read this passage, notice how Paul connects love, honor, and hospitality. In our individualistic culture, true hospitality – opening our homes and lives to others – can feel uncomfortable. Yet it’s a powerful way to demonstrate God’s love. Reflect on your own level of hospitality. Are you willing to inconvenience yourself to welcome others? Do you actively look for ways to make newcomers feel at home in your church? Ask God to give you a heart of genuine love and hospitality. Pray for opportunities to extend welcome to others this week, whether through a shared meal, a listening ear, or a simple act of kindness.

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